We got Noah's six week report yesterday. It was the general one from his teacher, and then an update on his IEP goals. The overall picture is that Noah is really, really distracted by all the goings on in the classroom. We're not really surprised by any of it. But it's hard not to worry a little bit about our boy. Thankfully, we've had two years of pre-school and we know his strengths and weaknesses.
Every day he tells us he had fun at school. He likes the other kids, and they seem to like him. He's good at the routine of school. We just didn't know how he was doing on actual school work. The worksheets he brings home are fine. And when he and I do his little bit of homework he does fine. The biggest problem is he just can't pay attention in class to save his life.
We knew that this was going to be a problem. It's a big change from 12 kids and 3 teachers to 22 kids and 2 teachers. There's just so much going on in the classroom. And he's a kid who from just about the day he was born loves to watch what everyone in the world is doing - literally. If he were older, he'd probably be one of those kids staring out the window all day, and then having to do all of his school work once he got home. In Kindergarten, it's a little bit more of a problem that he can't pay attention.
One of the things we've learned about Noah is that he learns almost everything by watching videos - his alphabet, numbers, shapes, colors, everything. Thankfully, there are some good educational websites where he can learn letter sounds and all the other things they're working on. We showed him one of them yesterday and he spent a good amount of time on there and enjoyed it.
We have to keep coming back to our goals for Noah and
school - that he enjoys being there. We can't change what they have to
learn in kindergarten these days, but we don't have to get caught up in
it all. That can be hard. To not compare where he is to where all the
other kids are. He's just not a typical student, and we may never know why.
To us, the most important thing is that he's a happy and sweet boy who loves to go to school, loves music, and loves to play outside with his friends. At five, not much else really matters.
3 years ago